As I sit at my computer, I’m thinking about the many, many things I’m considering when deciding whether or not to ask my partner to marry me.
In some cases, it’s simply a matter of conscience, while in other cases, this is a matter where I don’t think it’s possible to change my mind.
As a Christian, I’ve been asked to change our vows many times before.
Some of my best friends asked me to marry them after I got engaged, while others have asked me if I’m ready for a child, or if they’re ready for divorce.
But when it comes to my own marriage, it feels like I’m in the minority.
The reality is, I don`t know if I can change my partner’s mind at all.
This may seem obvious to you, but I’m pretty sure most of you are thinking the same thing.
There are so many questions about the marriage I’ve already answered.
I just want to make sure that I’m clear.
And then I will go on to say the same things again and again.
So I know that when I say I love you, I mean it.
You don’t have to change your mind to love me.
You can tell me you love me by loving my family.
Love is more than words.
It is the love of a whole heart.
Let me be clear: I love you.
What you don’t love me for is how I feel about myself.
That doesn’t mean you can’t tell me what you want to hear.
Or maybe you don`T want to change.
We all have our moments of doubt, so don`s just be patient.
Trust me, we can all come to love each other, and that`s what matters.
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